12 SIGNS OF UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS!!!

1. UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS PLOT AGAINST YOU AT NIGHT AND LAUGH WITH YOU IN THE MORNING. THEY SMILE A LOT AND ACT NICE TO YOU, BUT REALLY, THEY ARE TALKING AND GOSSIPING BEHIND YOUR BACK.

2. THEY APPEAR WHEN THEY NEED YOU AND DISAPPEAR WHEN YOU NEED THEM THE MOST. THEY ARE VERY SELFISH AND SELF-CENTERED.

3. YOUR SUCCESS THREATENS THEM. THEY GET UPSET WHEN SOMETHING GOOD HAPPENS TO YOU. THEY ARE HIGHLY COVETOUS.

4. THEY BLACKMAIL YOU EMOTIONAL. TAKES ADVANTAGE OF YOU. CAUSE YOU PAIN, HURT YOU AND DECEIVE YOU.

5. THEY ALWAYS TRY TO COMPETE WITH YOU AND MAKE YOU FEEL THEY ARE BETTER THAN YOU.

6. UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS ALWAYS CRITICIZE YOU NEGATIVELY. THEY CONSTANTLY POINT OUT ALL THE NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT YOUR LIFE. THEY DON'T SEE ANYTHING GOOD ABOUT YOU.

7. THEY DISCREDIT YOU AND DOUBT EVERYTHING YOU SAY OR DO. THEY HOLD YOU IN LOW ESTEEM AND SPREAD LIES ABOUT YOU. THEY LACK FAITH IN YOU AND BELITTLE YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS.

8. THEY ARE NOT CONSISTENT. YOU CANNOT DEPEND OR RELY ON THEM. THEY ARE NOT TRUSTWORTHY.

9. UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS DON'T FEEL BAD OR REMORSE WHEN THEY HURT YOU. THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE RATHER THEY ARE JUDGMENTAL; ALWAYS FEELING THEY ARE RIGHT.

10. THEY REJOICE WHEN SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS TO YOU. YOUR PAIN GIVES THEM JOY.

11. UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS WILL NEVER PATRONIZE YOU EVEN IF YOU SELL THE SECRETS TO LONG LIFE AND PROSPERITY, ALL BECAUSE OF ENVY AND JEALOUSY.

12. THEY ARE HAPPY WHEN YOU SHARE YOUR SECRETS WITH THEM, BECAUSE, THEY ARE GOING TO USE IT AGAINST YOU, TO BLACKMAIL, HURT OR BETRAY YOU WITHOUT YOUR NOTICE.

NB: LIFE IS FULL OF UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS AND SOMETIMES YOUR PROBLEM IS NOT THE PROBLEM; YOUR ACTUAL PROBLEM IS THE PERSON YOU TELL YOUR PROBLEM.

SOME PEOPLE DIDN'T DIE WHEN THE ARROW WAS IN THEIR CHEST, THEY DIED WHEN THEY SAW WHO THREW THE ARROW. 

THE HEART IS DECEITFUL ABOVE ALL THINGS AND DESPERATELY WICKED.

BEWARE OF UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS!!!

HOW TO GET AHEAD IN LIFE!!!

1. THE COOL THING ABOUT BEING HUMAN IS YOU CAN MAKE A DECISION AT ANY POINT & WALK A NEW DIRECTION FOREVER.

2. PLEASE DON’T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF LIVING YOUR WHOLE LIFE IN A SURVIVAL MODE.

3. NO ONE IS GOING TO WALK YOU THROUGH BECOMING WEALTHY. YOU’VE GOT TO WANT TO LEARN THE PROCESS YOURSELF.

4. IF YOU FEEL LOST, YOU CAN REVERSE GOAL INTO SMALLER GOALS & DAILY ACTIONS. NOW, YOU AREN’T SO “LOST”.

5. THE LIMITATIONS ARE IN YOUR MIND. YOUR BODY CAN KEEP GOING FOR A LOT LONGER THAN YOU THINK.

6. THERE’S NO NEED TO QUESTION YOUR MOTIVES NOR YOUR INTENTIONS BECAUSE YOUR ENERGY HAS ALREADY BETRAYED YOU.

7. YOU BECOME RICH BY OWNING AN ASSET WHOSE VALUE KEEPS GROWING. THAT SHOULD INCLUDE YOUR MIND.

8. CREATE A RESISTANCE. CREATE A CULT-LIKE MENTALITY. CREATE PEOPLE WHO BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU BELIEVE.

9. GRATITUDE, NO MATTER WHAT. ALL THAT HAPPENS IS FOR GOOD.

10. EXPERTISE IS OVERRATED. COMMON SENSE IS UNDERRATED.

TYPES OF PEOPLE THAT WILL NOT SUCCEED IN LIFE!!!

1. PEOPLE THAT DO NOT HAVE ANY PRIORITY OR PLAN AND ARE JUST LAZY. THEY ARE CALLED DREAMERS. THEY HAVE DREAMS, BUT THEY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO GET THERE. THEIR GOALS ARE USUALLY UNREALISTIC.

2. THE ONES THAT DON’T WANT TO STRUGGLE AND ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A SHORTCUT. THE JOURNEY IS TOO FAR FOR THEM. HONESTLY, THERE IS NO SHORTCUT TO SUCCESS.

3. THOSE THAT ARE AFRAID OF MAKING MISTAKES. MISTAKE OR FAILURE IS NOT BAD BECAUSE YOU CAN ALWAYS LEARN FROM IT. HOWEVER, NOBODY IS PERFECT.

4. THE ONES THAT FIND IT DIFFICULT TO LEAVE THEIR PAST BEHIND AND MOVE ON. IF YOU CANNOT LET GO OF YOUR PAST, IT IS GOING TO AFFECT YOUR PRESENT AND YOUR FUTURE.’’ THE PAST IS A GRAVE AND IT MAKES NO SENSE TO LIVE YOUR ENTIRE LIFE IN A GRAVE ‘’

5. THE ONES THAT PUT BLAME ON EVERYBODY AND THINGS AROUND THEM. THEY WILL NEVER ACCEPT BLAME FOR THEMSELVES AND FIND SOLUTIONS. THEY ALSO COMPLAIN A LOT. THEY WILL EVEN BLAME GOD FOR BEING THEIR CREATOR.

6. PEOPLE THAT BELIEVE IN OPPORTUNITY BUT ARE NEVER PREPARED TO GRAB THE OPPORTUNITY.

7. THOSE THAT ENJOY THEIR COMFORT ZONES SO MUCH. THEY LACK ADAPTATION, CREATIVITY, AND INTERPERSONAL SKILLS. THEY ARE USUALLY NOT GOOD AT TAKING RISKS.

8. THE ONES THAT DERIVE JOY IN TAKING LITTLE COINS/MONEY FROM OTHERS. THE BEGGAR’S HAND IS ALWAYS BELOW THE GIVER'S HAND. GO AND BUILD YOUR OWN WEALTH.

9. THE MISSION IMPOSSIBLE ONES. NOTHING SEEMS TO BE POSSIBLE IN THEIR SIGHTS. TELL THEM THAT YOU CAN BECOME THE NEXT PRESIDENT OF NIGERIA OR AMERICA. THEIR RESPONSE IS ALWAYS ‘’ IT'S NOT POSSIBLE’’.

10. THE ONES THAT LACK PERSISTENCE. 

11. PROCRASTINATION: HONESTLY, TIME WAITS FOR NOBODY. SADLY, SOME PEOPLE THINK THEY STILL GOT PLENTY OF TIME.

42 RULES TO BE INSANELY SUCCESSFUL!!!

 42 RULES TO BE INSANELY SUCCESSFUL!!!

1. Your best self is right beyond your comfort zone.

2. Be nice to people who are hateful, they need it the most.

3. Don’t burn bridges, we live in a small world.

4. Never be afraid of your feelings. They are there for a reason.

5. Never regret a day in your life. Good days give you happiness and bad days give you experience. Both are essential in life.

6. The strength you have within is enough to fight your battles.

7. Having something to lose makes life worth living.

8. Rules are made to be broken. Be bold enough to live life on your terms, and never, ever apologize for it. Go against the grain, refuse to conform, take the road less traveled instead of the well-beaten path.

9. Practice moderation IN EVERYTHING and I really mean EVERYTHING. Even in things you may consider “positive”, “healthy” or “good”. That guy who spends 7 days a week in the gym, thinking he is on top of his fitness game isn’t doing it right. That guy who is at work until 9 PM and gets home when his kids are already sleeping isn’t doing it right. That guy who is up until 3 am choking his chicken even though he has work/school in the morning isn’t doing it right. No one wishes they had spent more time at the gym, the office, or jerking off on their deathbed. MODERATION IS KING OF THE UNIVERSE.

10. Do not buy new cars, the best deal is a slightly used, low mileage car.

11. Do not buy new gadgets. They are half-off the following year.

12. Do not day-trade, invest for the long-term. Day-trading has a 100% failure rate.

13. Study Philosophy. The earlier you get into it, the better your life will be. Quite literally, the term philosophy means "lover of wisdom" from greek philo = “lover of” and sophia = “wisdom”. Need some mentors? Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Lao Tzu, Confucius, Nietzsche, Schopenhauer, Kierkegaard, Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, and many others have been mentoring people for hundreds/thousands of years!

14. How to keep in shape without a diet: Keep your food portions small and eat 6–8 times per day vs 3 huge meals. How big should a single food portion be? Clinch your hand into a fist. In terms of proteins, your fist size is one food portion. Vegetables and fruits can be eaten as much as you want!

15. If you are a creative person, do not buy into the whole “must wake up at 4 am to be successful” mentality of CEOs. Corporate CEOs are non-creative type of people who are hired to keep the lights on, not to create things. Their schedules demand regimentation while the creative schedule demands exploration. Do not confuse the two.

16. The money problem is very easy to solve if you think CREATIVELY. People who have 9–5 jobs think linearly and like to follow easy rules. Creative people create their own rules.

17. The best lifehack to become wealthy is starting a high-growth company and making it succeed. There is absolutely no better alternative. As a founder, you buy your company’s stock at close to nothing (cents!). Years later it could be worth billions! AMAZING!

18. The second best wealth lifehack would be investing in such a company early on but you must already be wealthy for this to work and you give up control as you don’t actually run the company yourself.

19. If you’re unable to do any of the two suggestions above, the third best wealth lifehack is to become a financial monk and SAVE + INVEST every penny you earn. Google “F.I.R.E.” and join the movement. The earlier in life you start, the better.

20. If you are female, read non-fiction more. If you are male, read fiction more.

21. Real love is one soul in two bodies.

22. Whatever feeds the ego, kills the soul.

23. Surround yourself with people who are better than you. That way you become better by association.

24. Make sure you make time for laughter in your life. Schedule it if you are busy but don’t miss out on it.

25. Practice becoming an effective communicator. 90% of the problems in the world can be fixed with better communication. 99% of all human conflicts can be attributed to bad communication. It is probably one of the most taken-for-granted attributes of existence.

26. If you want to raise children that are creative, let them be kids. Give them enough playtime and exploratory time. Do not overburden them with stuff YOU as a parent want them to do. Remember Michael Jackson? He was basically an adult child because his childhood was robbed of him.

27. If you are an atheist/agnostic looking for a way to become more mentally resilient and/or improve your mental well-being, look into Zen which is a philosophy of “being in peace with yourself” and provides for some spiritually without religion. Google or YouTube “Alan Watts” to get started.

28. If you are male, find a woman with a brain. They all have vaginas. If you are female, find a man with lots of money, you can be their brain!

29. Buying flowers is way cheaper than a divorce. Don’t be irrational.

30. Don’t just speak about doing something. Do them! Then speak about it while you are showing it off to people.

31. Remember: In a world of change, not taking a risk is risky itself.

32. Courage is knowing it might hurt and doing it anyway.

33. Don’t think of failure as failure, think of it as a stepping stone to success.

34. Complaining is not a strategy. It’s a coping mechanism. Those who are able to change, change. Those who do not, complain.

35. If you are female, refrain from gossiping. Every time you gossip, you reduce your social status with the people you do the gossiping with.

36. The worst decisions are made when people are emotional. Count to 10 if you are upset. Count to 100 if you are really upset. Sleep over it just to be safe.

37. Remember, only hurt people hurt people.

38. Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want.

39. Turn off the news. If something super important happens, you will hear it from someone around you. Worrying about things you cannot control is a waste of time/energy and contributes greatly to unnecessary stress in your life.

40. You must make time for meaningful growth. If you are not growing, you are stagnating. It doesn’t have to be huge things, just watching a TED talk or reading a book can contribute to your growth. Become a life-long learner.

41. Nothing that’s worthwhile is easy but with practice/experience, anything hard can become easy.

42. Find something you love to do first. Worry about making money second. You have found your life-work if what you think, say, and do are in harmony.

SOME EXPERIENCE IN LIFE!!!

 SOME EXPERIENCE IN LIFE!!!

1. Once you get attached to someone, you are fucked!

2. Don't take any major decision when u are angry, wait for at least 12 hours and then respond .

3. Social media has led to sadness in youth because of comparison.

4. Behind every success lies broken friend ship, promises, loneliness .. you have to survive through it!

5. Sadness is temporary, this too shall pass away!

6. Your parents may make unfair decisions, but their intention is never wrong.

7. Looks do matter in majority cases.

8. Talk to yourself in morning in front of the mirror, it may seem crazy but has psychologically improving outcomes.

9. Consider everyone around you as temporary, this will help you create less damaging impact.

10. When you think life is unfair with you, there are thousands of people having 10x worst situation than you do!

DIFFERENT WAYS PEOPLE THINK!!!

 DIFFERENT WAYS PEOPLE THINK!!!

1. Smart people think they can solve every problem with pure intellect.

2. Rich people think they can solve every problem by throwing money at it.

3. Good people think they can solve every problem with kindness and love But, life is usually a tad more complicated than that.

4. Effective solutions often combine intellectual thought , resources , and compassion.

5. You can never be sure of other people’s intent, thoughts, and feelings . Normalize being okay with letting people think whatever they want about you.

6. You can’t be sure of the outcome of a particular event , but living a life of paralyzing fear/ fear of unknown is not a life worth living.

7. You can’t predict the future , but you can reasonably predict what kind of person you’ll be ten years from now.

SOME IMPORTANT LIFE LESSON!!!

 SOME IMPORTANT LIFE LESSON!!!

1. The first thing you should buy once you’ve money is a healthier lifestyle.

2. Someone who destroys your mental health cannot be the love of your life.

3. You’ve to chase money hard because life asks you for it non-stop . Financial independence will buy you audacity.

4. Biggest lesson in life : don’t ever think it can’t happen to you.

5. Life humbled so many of parents who thought their children were better than others.

6. You need a bit of ignorance to enjoy life ; too much knowledge will leave you depressed.

7. People around you, constantly under the pull of their emotions , change their ideas by the day or by the hour , depending on their mood . You must never assume what people say or do in a particular moment is a statement of their permanent desires.

8. Normalize lying to people who ask too much about your private life.